There are so many reason to experience a boudoir photoshoot. Before I do let's be clear no experience is the same! There’s no template for boudoir. Each experience is unique to you. Miss. Joy doesn't follow a formula and the outcome is very much based on the personalities involved.
This means that if you want your photo shoot to be cosy and relaxed, that’s what Miss. Joy will make it. If you want it to be sexy and revealing, you’ve got it. Miss. Joy poses and encourages you along the way. The end result will be something personal and specific to you. Boudoir give you and/or your significant other something to be proud of and something that serves as a reminder of what’s important to your relationship.
So, why should you do a boudoir photoshoot? If you aren’t already convinced, here are some of the reasons Miss. Joy thinks you should consider having a boudoir photo shoot…
It Builds Intimacy
Boudoir builds intimacy with yourself and/or partner. You’ve already chosen to spend your life with your partner and you’ve already shown each other all sorts of parts of yourselves – physically and emotionally. Sharing an experience like this can take all of that one step further, adding to those building blocks of intimacy which make up your relationship.
Through the Bonnie's Joy experience and the physical prompt of your beautiful images, you and/or partner will be reminded of the affection you have for yourself and the confidence it brings. Your partner will be reminded of the beautiful sensual creature you are the special bond you share. Shifting your partner's or your focus on the shining light of your natural perfection. Specifically capturing that authenticity in print really highlights one's relationship.
You may find that afterwards, you have a new appreciation for each other, an added layer to your relationship. Learning new things with and about your partner is a beautiful bonding experience.
It’s a Custom Experience
Bonnie's Joy can set the scene to reflect exactly what romance is for you. If rose petals and luxurious fabrics do it for you, you’ve got it. If you prefer simplicity, Bonnie's Joy can do that too. Just let Miss, Joy know she will make it happen.
At Bonnie's Joy studio, we have a range of props for you to try out and get comfy with. Including a bed, chaise longue and a assortment of benches and chairs! You’re welcome to bring smaller props with you as well. These might include sumptuous throws, fabrics, flowers, etc. Anything you’re unsure of, please just ask. Bonnie's Joy really want you to feel comfortable and relaxed so that Miss. Joy can help you get the absolute most out of your experience.
Ultimately, the goal is to create an atmosphere where you can be yourself. Miss. Joy will be there to pamper and coach you every step of the way to capture the moment and you will be the only focus.
You’ll will feel VERY Sexy
Even if you don’t feel sexy at the beginning of the shoot, you will by the time Miss. Joy is done. Bonnie's Joy experience comes with 3 outfit changes. This could range from super sexy underwear to your significant other favourite t-shirt – whatever does it for you.
There aren’t really any rules here. If you are more comfortable with nothing or little on then Miss. Joy can make that work. If your happy to reveal all, that can make a great shot too! Miss. Joy knows how to work up to gradually so that you feel comfortable she a real natural.
Bonnie's Joy is a great excuse for you to pamper yourselves before the shoot! If your partner knows about your upcoming experience this is a great time to go shopping together, pick out outfits, talk about themes (this also is a bonding experience as well). Treat yourselves to manicures, pedicures, facials, etc. to make sure you’re ready and at your best ahead of the session. This isn’t mandatory – if you’d rather keep your look natural, that’s perfectly fine with us
Let's a honest we all take people for granted including ourselves and sometimes miss the little things about people which make our lives better, easier and worthwhile. During your Bonnie's Joy experienced Miss. Joy values your authenticity and your desire to build intimacy with yourself or your significant other. A boudoir experience can serve as a reminder to be kinder to yourself, embrace your beauty and value your sensuality. Building your self confidence increasing those feelings and thoughts with your partner as well.
Sometimes this can be a little surprising. Seeing yourselves from a slightly different perspective can really solidify your existing bond as a couple and with yourself. For example; catching that admiring glance from your partner you maybe don’t notice before your Bonnie's Joy experience.
After your Bonnie's Joy experience you’ll feel more connected to your partner but more importantly with yourself. And maybe even just a little bit more in love don't we all want that more self love?
This is a chance for you to really celebrate who you, are as you are and have fun doing it. You can relax as Miss. Joy professional applies makeup and hair with 25 years experience you know your in good hands. Miss. Joy specializes in vintage styles. Want something more urban and up to date? No problem just let Miss. Joy know. Listening to your choice of music and Miss. Joy humorous nature your bound to have a blast.
Bonnie's Joy comfortable and private studio, you can try new things or rely on what you know you’re already comfortable with. Miss. Joy will help you along the way with suggestions and direction. Miss. Joy really works for you to enjoy the session feeling pampered and relaxed for those natural shots that look “real” than if you’re nervous or tense.
Being Nervous Isn’t a Problem
Sometimes we find that were really nervous for our photoshoot. Miss. Joy understand being the eldest of 5 sisters and a mom herself she is naturally patent and people quickly are at ease with her. Bonnie's Joy reassure you; Miss. Joy seen it all and prides herself on building a relaxed and trusting environment. There’s no judgement here and Bonnie's Joy want you to feel comfortable so that she can capture your honest and true self. Miss. Joy isn't shooting for brochures polished, contrived images. Bonnie's Joy want something unique and personal to you. Something that doesn’t exist anywhere else, with anyone else.
Miss Joy will provide VIP service from start to finish. Consultation session before the shoot to discuss ideas, ans questionnaire of what you like and of course what you dont like. If there are any angles or “problem areas” that you don’t want to be shot, let Miss. Joy know. Miss. Joy may challenge you on these of course if she think it will make for a beautiful shot, but ultimately, it’s your call. Mis. Joy is very respectful of your body and ask permission to touch. Miss. Joy is polite, professional, intelligent and well educated so you have a most amazing experience.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve been in your relationship for 2 or 20 years or if your single a boudoir experience can have lasting confidence boost and feelings of intimacy. It's an amazing experience! If your in a relationship boudoir can bring that "new " feeling to each other, remind yourselves and your partner of all of the little reasons why you’re together and reaffirm all of those big reasons too. Boudoir is a once in a lifetime gift to yourself and/ or significant other. So what are you waiting for? Book your appointment today.
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